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Smarter Than Passion: Why Your Kid Needs a Plan, Not Just a Dream

We’ve all heard the advice: “Follow your passion.” It sounds inspiring, but for many young adults, it can also feel overwhelming, unclear—or even misleading. Passion is a great starting point, but without a plan, it can lead to frustration, financial strain, and confusion about what comes next. Additionally, passions change over time. My credo is follow your strengths.

Parents and students alike: the truth is, passion without direction is just noise.

Parents: Encourage your child to explore their interests, but also help them connect those interests to real-world careers. Ask, “What do you love doing—and where does that intersect with something people will pay you for?” Help them research job paths, salary ranges, and growth potential. Passion is powerful, but purpose comes from doing, not just dreaming. Again follow your strengths.

Students: Your passions may evolve—and that’s okay. Instead of obsessing over finding your “one true calling,” focus on developing strong, transferable skills. Communication, project management, problem-solving, and leadership are valuable in nearly every industry. Build experience through part-time jobs, internships, clubs, or volunteer work. You’ll learn what you enjoy but more importantly what you’re good at.

Build a Plan That’s Adaptable

You don’t need to have it all figured out at 18. But you do need to start taking steps. That means mapping out:

  • What field or type of work excites you?
  • What education or training does it require?
  • What’s the average starting salary—and cost of entry?
  • Are there internships or part-time opportunities in that space?

Test and Tweak

Try job shadowing. Reach out to professionals in a field of interest and ask for informational interviews. Get on LinkedIn, follow people who do what you think you want to do, and ask questions. Learn how they got started—and what they’d do differently.

Parents: Support with Structure
Support your teen’s dreams, but add accountability. Help them set short- and long-term goals. Make space for exploration, but require progress. Celebrate effort and growth—not just achievement.

Dreams are essential—but plans are what bring them to life. Help your child balance inspiration with information. The strongest future isn’t built on passion alone—it’s built on action, clarity, and the willingness to evolve along the way.

Because what good is a degree… if you can’t manage your money?

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